Vincent talks in his sleep.
He doesn’t really even talk all that much yet, but what he can say, he says in his sleep, too.
The first time it happened was a couple of months ago.
I’m not even sure where we were driving, but Richard and I were in the front talking quietly, and Vincent was asleep in his car seat in the back. Unmistakable stretching prompted a quick glance; one small fist flexed up by his head and another reached out to the side. As his muscles began to relax, a very dreamy, yet distinct, “Bye bye…” sneaked out of his mouth.
Ever since then, his sleep talking and/or noise making has gotten more and more frequent.
I’ve also discovered what it feels like to have a barnacle attached to you at night (Richard accuses me of being such a creature, but I’m sure he must be exaggerating!).
Vincent currently sleeps in his crib, which is side-carred to our bed. This arrangement may very well be the best decision we’ve made in regards to sleep. With the front of the crib removed, it fits snugly up against the side of our bed (the back of the crib is against the wall, so it’s a very tight fit – ie, no cracks between his mattress and ours). This means that although Vincent sleeps in his crib, he can crawl up into our bed if he chooses.
Depending on if he’s sick, or teething, etc., he may crawl up into bed anywhere between 1-5,000,000 times a night (okay, usually it’s more like 2-3 times a night). I love it. Often, he doesn’t even make a noise – just lumbers up, and snuggles up in my arms. One little arm will tuck up underneath him, and the other will drape (rather octopus like, actually) around my neck. Babies are pretty flexible, which explains how it’s comfortable for him to then throw a leg (or sometimes two) up over my belly.
I’m a snuggle-fiend, and so most of the time I couldn’t ask for a better arrangement. When I’m trying to ease him back to sleep in the evening so I can get up to clean/watch tv/write/take a bath/have non-baby time… well, then it gets a little ridiculous. Because Vincent scootches with me when I try to scootch out of the bed. Generally, i have to peel him off gently, one appendage at a time.
Interestingly, the last few weeks he seems to crawl into bed for a quick cuddle, and then roll back into his crib. (Yes, he literally rolls). In fact, last night he crawled into my arms for about 5 seconds, rolled into his crib. Back for five more seconds with me, then another roll. He repeated this four times in a row, asleep the entire time.
Even if I hadn’t seen this child physically emerge from my body, there is no doubt that this sleep-talking, sleep-cuddling, sleep-rolling baby belongs to me.
(Since Richard falls asleep ramrod straight and then doesn’t budge the entire night… Vincent clearly gets his sleep from his momma.)